Comfortable in Your Own Skin
Listen to your song in stillness,
own the sound that beats inside,
kick off the dust of yesterday,
wing like an eagle to tomorrow.
Ladle out love in big scoops,
accept the winds of change
and ride them into the horizon.
Eavesdrop on heartfelt songs
of innocence reverberating,
uplift your questioning eyes
and seek your own advice
because others have not trod
your path scattered with
withered flowers and scars
of darkened corridors.
Stir laughter into your tears,
flow forth in lively colors,
speak your truths loudly.
Play with fire and flesh,
develop strength of spirit,
run swiftly into the future.
Remember who you were,
recognize who you are
and discover who you will be –
but above all, be yourself,
comfortable in your own skin.
Life After Death
Feeling clearer
than sun’s betrayal,
I still feel
my whispers inside.
I am a woman
with no face,
fleeting shadow
where I once bloomed.
Waking up desolate
where I once roamed,
stumbling across fields
of spellbinding bleakness,
darkened eyes
of no color.
Sheltered and cushioned
from life’s travails,
I finally feel free
and ready to soar.
Pooled in jewels
of liquid chemistry,
wandering in tranquility
through uncharted paths.
Floating blissfully
in unknown world,
circling around
the sleepless moon.
Superficial husk
many miles
down the road,
remembering
life before death.
Adrift
The moon was glued
to shroud of clouds
misplaced in blue dawn
I knew I was lost, adrift
unable to elevate the sun
and rip open the dark curtains
of the black unyielding sky
the woman in me
vanished, unable to breathe
tarnished life without spirit
hopes and dreams, dripping
listless wax on heart
listening to screeching sounds
of worn out soul
skin opened to empty space
hanging on by dangling thread
drawn into hollow echoes
boots adrift on a dusty trail
unable to embrace rain
with outstretched palms
but sunshine follows
even the darkest nights
as light looms
through shadows
of loss.
Free
There’s nothing better
than being a writer
heaving paint
on canvas of life
mini dribs and drabs
and splashes of color
seeing things
only you can see
flowing into
wayward streams
slinging handfuls
of light
honing words
to sharp edges
uncovering
passion and lust
saying what
you mean
or leaving
gaps for
interpretation
screaming thoughts
in lightning bolts
twisted endings
emerging ideas
spirited words
aimed at target
tidal outflow
splitting to
form new bodies
of misty vision.
I write as I please
say what I want
don’t get paid
no chained words
I’m free at last!
Tequila Sunset
Purple pours over ashen skies
Doused by distant rain
Moody and wild, unkempt on the ocean
Where waves roll like reluctant children
Angry to sleep, eager to persist
On beaches that steal your breath
In forests that quench depths
Of your soul, unhindered by any man made goal
But societies try, you have the stereotypes to deny
Capitalism has its eye on paradise
But you'd do well to refuse its advances
Ignore the posterity of perceived wealth
And soak in natures riches
Snapshots of experience
Away from the mundane
I hear distant rhythms of societies din
Parties of celebration and social sin
Where we can all fit in
Everyone loves a good tune
Beach fires under an almost full moon
Tribal and unrestrained by rule or law
Sunset celebrations at our core
Stories to score
Too many tequilas have me at the mercy of my thoughts
Where I devour the ambience
Live in the glow of the sun going down
To nocturnal birdsong and breaking waves
And how humanity plays
Under a tequila sunset...
© Richard Withey. All rights reserved.
Please Stay
The last time I saw him
in the mist of his oblivion
his footprints whispered goodbye
harsh rain soaked into my soul
I clung to him with tears of no return
the heavy weight of water pulled him
away from me into his vague future
I wish I could swallow more time
keep it safely tucked into my belly
before he floated away from me
stagnant air festers in my head
as my haunting words linger in air
pleading for one more chance
but I only hear the echo of my voice
reverberating in the empty night
“Please stay, oh please stay with me.”
I am left with little piles of memories
encapsulated deep within my heart
as he vanishes forever from my view.
Your True Soulmate
When you hear the word “soulmate”, you immediately think of the person you are to spend your life with in a romantic and/or sexual way; your husband, wife, partner, and lover. But a true soulmate encompasses so much more. There are so many different types of soulmates in the world because the category cannot be so narrowed to the mainstream way of thinking. It is my belief that you can have more than one soulmate simply because humans are so complex and filled with such different thoughts and emotions.
When you do find a soulmate, your heart soars; it beats more strongly than ever before because your soul is rejoicing in finding a missing piece. Ever met someone for the first time, but it feels as though you’ve known them forever? Or felt the urge to speak to a complete stranger because something is drawing you over? How about the confusion you may feel because you experience an attraction to someone that you never anticipated you would (for example, finding yourself attracted to the same gender if you identify as heterosexual)? Your soul knows what it wants, and actively seeks those people to help you feel complete.
In Greek mythology, humans were originally created with four arms, four legs, and a head with two faces. Fearing their power, Zeus split them into two separate parts, condemning them to spend their lives in search of their other halves. This did not explicitly imply a physical relationship; moreover, the people that were split were male/female, male/male, and female/female. This in and of itself should lend support to the idea that there is more than one type of soulmate.
Soulmates can be found based upon such things as similarity, love, romance, comfort, intimacy, sexuality and sexual activity, spirituality, compatibility, and trust. Have you ever felt so close to a person that you cannot understand why you are in separate bodies? You can love a person without being “in love” with them and the emotions and actions that said emotion entails. You can find comfort in similarity with another person. Intimacy is not strictly limited to carnal lusts; speaking of things no one else knows and sharing personal information requires a special bond, as well as compatibility and trust.
It is my belief that there are a lucky few people in the world who have truly succeeded in finding and reconnecting with their missing half. The rest of us may be joined at the foot to our best friend, by our torso to our lover or partner, the head by someone who stimulates and challenges you intellectually, and your heart by your spiritual equal. And while you can be content and quite happy with these different pieces coming together to make you whole, you might just have the fleeting thought that something might be missing. You can’t quite put your finger on it, but there’s an emptiness there. Simply put, you haven’t found the final piece of your soul, your final “soulmate”.