National Shame?
One of my favorite Titanic facts is that a Japanese man was among those that survived the sinking of the Titanic, and when he got back to his home, he was disowned because he did not die with the rest of the passengers. According to Wikipedia (so, do your own research), Masabumi Hosono had lost his job and been ostracized by newspaper publications for living (perhaps because of the women and children first thing?). However, he was rehired by his job at the Ministry since he was too valuable to lose, though his family still has the shame of the ordeal. His grandson, Haruomi Hasani, who is a lead singer of the Japanese band Yellow Magic Orchestra, said he was happy to finally tell the story (as it had been lost in the past) because it was starting to air the bad laundry of what happened before.