Mono E Mono
Any relationship can be successful under AGREEABLE conditions. If for any reason conditions are no longer found agreeable by one or both parties. An open, honesty, amicable, discussion of such should result in the least amount of suffering for both parties involved. Not speaking up about actions found to be bothersome overtime grows into animosity and resentfulness. Which everyone can agree is not an attractive light to be captured in.
I found monogamy to be the end of self-gratification for the sake of someone else’s. Not the end of sexual gratification. But that was fleeting. Leaving my outlook a better vantage point from which to keep an eye on the adamant eve growing closer, darken, then darker. Spurning my strategic retreat from eminent destruction. Attempting to retain at least the minimum amount of decency needed to maintain my family’s respect.
If that is gone between even Monogamist partners. Your just fucking yourselves in the end.