a manual to me

This one comes with a bit of anxiety. I know you want to help, but you can't. When she gets overwhelmed by it, give her space and she'll calm down, eventually.

She is an unpredictable being. I know this can be upsetting sometimes. Love her anyways. When she is a screaming banshee and when she is a calm ocean tide, love her.

She is too much for some people. I know this is not easy to understand, when you so easily fit wherever you are. But, sometimes she doesn't know how to fit into spaces because her opinions are too big, and sometimes she cannot, for the life of her, figure out how to take up enough space to be noticed. Let her know that, either way, she belongs with you.

This one can get angry. This may frighten you or make you angry too. Just know, the reason she gets angry, it is because she is passionate. She loves deeply, she feels richly. When she gets angry, try your best to let her. I know that it's hard, but do it anyways. No one else gives her space to feel that burning rage and she will thank you for it.

She is a loving soul, and becomes encompassed by the love she feels for others. Her love is calm and kind and thoughtful. She loves others easily, but does not accept love with ease. Do not see this as a sign to stop. Keep loving her, keep trying. One day, she'll learn to accept that love.

She is a loyal creature, and a fearsome protector of the people she loves. Follow these instructions, and this one will stay by your side forever.