Different Perspective

It is what it is. Obsessing over what you don't have is the key to unhappiness. This world is cruel, so I think everyone goes through rough times. Rather than constantly thinking of yourself as a "victim" though, you should eventually move onto being a "survivor." You may also have things that make up for it. For example, I don't think I deserved being bullied for a good chunk of my life, but on the other hand, I don't deserve my parents catering to me so much either. Thus, while I was a "victim" of bullying, I have good parents to help me get through hard times and continue to assist me in ways I may not deserve.

Regardless though, rather than worrying about what has happened to you or what you don't have, you should look towards the future and move towards what you want and need. Hard work eventually pays off. Use your experiences to create a better future for you, others, and the world.