Chisel out the word

"virgin"

from where it's carved

against your crumpled mind.

They only value your purity

when it is convenient,

when you are at dinner

with their parents

in a white eyelet

dress,

but they want it strewn across

their bedroom floors

later that night.

Take that sunflower out

from behind your ear,

and slide the stem between

your breasts;

their hands can never

take it from you.

Congratulate your

body, and do not be deceived.

You are not

"losing"

anything.

No one's penis is important

enough

to change your identity.