R-E-S-P-E-C-T

Where there ain't respect, there can only be indifference or dislike -- even hatred. Respect is genuine trust and appreciation in someone or something. Think about it, really think about it...count all of the people you truly respect. Judge a man by his intent, I suppose. Everyone makes mistakes but did the bad judgment come from black bile in the person's heart and liable to be much repeated?

I write about respect because as I grow older my criteria for who or what I deserves my respect has risen drastically. For instance, no politician can possibly be respected, nor a religious leader either. You need integrity to get my respect. Another example is, very few professionals working in the media are worthy of emulation or praise. It pretty much boils down to greed: if you toil in your field because you love wealth, or are greedy, or a crook, you are not employed for your natural skills and passion for your field. Therefore, you do not have my respect. 

I say that respect must be earned. If you beat your children, assault your spouse, you are not to be respected just because of your marital or genetic relationship to them. Strive to give your family thoughts and actions that are respectful. Mostly, respect yourself  first and foremost.  

The world cannot survive unless respect and honor are made a priority.