I-Me and Self relations
We are all looking for sincerity, through the existential-ontological insecurity that is the infinite subjective realm of Self. Our greatest enemy is the I-Me relation with an objective emphasis over subjective solidarity in turn producing an inertia. An inertia seeking identification in the objective realm. This is an absolute false for objectivity cannot answer subjectivity. Inertia is a malignant void and it is all consuming to seek preordained affirmations; the slow, but sure destruction of Self is to walk such a path. There are only two forces within the soul's infinite realm of subjectivity: Gravity, an inward drawing force that collects "matter" condensing it into a star. Inertia, an outward dissipating force of a volatile nature requiring external "feeding" to maintain any mass i.e. "matter". Gravity requires work and self-actualization in the Maslowian sense. It constitutes a self-sufficient ego-system alike to a solar system moving through the Self's infinite space spiraling into the "fingerprint" of a unique personality, held together by the Self's Gravity. Whereas an Inertia based "Self" is bound for self-eradication under the pursuit of conformism and misidentifications; the cutting away of Self for the shaping of the idolized image in the sense of Horneyian theory. The issue is we live in a world and a society that encourages an Inertia based personality development. Seek Gravity and an I-Me relation that is "Self" sufficient with a subjective emphasis over objectivity. The "easiest" way to exam this is to analytically look at the script/roles and image one has chosen to identify with then ask what of my personality have I tapered to fit that identification complex. If one has done any tapering of the true personality to fit the image it is false and Inertia based. The opposite should be what of the script/role and image has one tapered to fit the personality, that is Gravity based truth and results in a "Self" affirmed individual. Just a thought...