We choose the life we lead
Few things are in our can control but we try to control them all. And it's only us we're able to control. If we control ourselves, then our lives are up to us.
It's all a choice.
The average emotion lasts 90 seconds. It is a choice what you feel, beyond that. Whether within your concious or subconcious mind, you're making a choice to hold a grudge. You make the choice to cheat on your lover. You make the choice to fall in love with your husband or wife every day, all over again.
It's all our choice. We choose the life we lead.
You choose your family. You choose your happiness, you choose to be disappointed. You choose. It's all a choice, each and every thing. A choice to live or to survive, a choice to engage or disengage. A choice to love, to lose, to feel.