Never soft

See what your problem is? You take months, if not years to stitch up and then when you feel somehow put together you're ready to let him run all over you again because you put him first.

It's gonna hurt girl, it's gonna break you if you let it get to you. People give chances on trust once, twice but never a third time and you got yourself giving over the limit to someone that did nothing but take it for granted. Now breath, drink up, tomorrow will be another day of learning to live with your own strenght and no one will ever dare call you soft ever again.