Do not do to your children!

You want your child to respect you and others. You want your child to be polite, faithful, humble. You want them to be understanding, patient, full of integrity. You want children to be well mannered! But you get them totally or partially opposite? Then you blame them. But have you ever thought for a while why your child is bearing this malversation in them?

It is thought that, family is the primary institute to build up virtuous children. Parents are the principal here!

If you want your child to be friendly and virtuous, then please do not do the followings to them! :-

• When at the age of 1-10 :

I. Do not ignore their presence and pay heed to what they want you to hear. Never say “You are a child so you don’t know……. ". such words grieve them. Rather Explain to them fondly.

II. Do not beat them on very silly reasons. Make them understand the positivity.

III. Do not always show anger to them. Rather teach them how to keep patience and be polite.

IV. Never hurt/Humiliate/criticize your elder child in front of the younger.

V. Never give immediately what they want, if it’s not that much necessary /good for them. It'll lead them to indomitable ambition in future.

VI. Never trash talk about others specially in front of your child. It will teach them to criticize others.

VII. Never do racism and discrimination. It'll teach your child to do the same!

VIII. Keep them away from family problems and Violations.

IX. Do not get drunk in front of your children.

• When at the age of 11-20 :

i. In his/her developing phase, please never put your hand on them! Try to Understand their swinging mood.

ii. Never grin at them while they are in anger or distress. This hits their self-esteem and results in increased aggression.

iii. Never compare their ability/Marks of result or anything else with other's child. This leads their mind to think him/herself inferior.

iv. Never mislead your child. ( Like letting them be drunk, Alcoholic or drug /Technology addicted)

v. Do not pressurize them on your choice. Show them the right paths then let them to choose whichever they like.

vi. While in anger/severe mood swing (during adolescence period), instead of provoking their anger conciliate them with love and patience.

vii. Never discriminate willingly or subconsciously among your children.

viii. Never disrespect / discourage their good works /opinions.