The thing we desire most is to be understood and in order for that to happen we need to feel acceptance. Sadly the easiest way to feel accepted is to follow a mirage that consists of unfulfillment and self compromise. But as Dumbledor says "we must choose between what is right and what is easy."

The right way to find acceptance and understanding starts inward. Self love is the key that opens you up to people who will love you unconditionally. Unfortunately self love is one of the hardest things to master. So that is why I look to my Creator: my Heavenly Father and His Son to know how to love and accept myself, which not everyone knows how to do.

And that is why I think people try so hard to fit into the crowd.