To All The Girls

To the girls who liked a guy who didn’t like her back

I’m sorry

You didn’t think it would turn out this way because you guys had a connection

He was everything you wanted him to be

He was there when you almost cried yourself to sleep.

I’m sorry that he let you go because he couldn’t see how great you were. He didn’t appreciate the girl your mama said would one day run the world.

To the girls who let go of the guys who loved them

Don’t play games hun, I know you loved him too.

But emotions are funny things and you didn’t understand them at the time.

You packed your bags and moved out of that little apartment you guys shared sitting on top of that Chinese restaurant.

You took a bus and moved back into your old bedroom at your mother’s house.

You’re sitting on your mother’s couch crying now wishing you were with him.

But you still don’t understand emotions enough to realize that he’s waiting on you because he understood.

To the girls who would never love him but would always like him.

You should probably let him go now. Give him away to someone who will love him with the intensity of the sun as it beats down on you trying to say what I’m saying.

Give him over. He doesn’t belong to you and holding on is damaging the both of you.

I know you want him badly. I wanted someone badly too. I wanted him so much that I would walk through the Sahara desert just so I could quench my thirst with him at the end.

To the girls who never wanted a guys love but let him believe that they did.

Now I’m not here to judge you. No one has a right to judge you.

You wanted him around because he made you feel safe.

You can’t have everything you want sweetie pie. Let him move on to a girl who actually wants his love. Stop messing with his feelings and woman up. You’ll meet someone who wants to love you and you will accept. But he isn’t yours. Maybe the guy who is yours lives in the house next to my mother’s because he got his heart crushed by a girl who just left. Or maybe it’s the guy who just bought a dozen roses to propose but is going to get rejected.

To the girls who have been living their lives wrong. It’s time to wake up and sort that shit out