Growing up means a lot of responsibility coming your way. Don't be overwhelmed, breath in and breathe out, start dealing with one thing at a time. Make sure you take your time when dealing with dilemmas, it does not hurt to conduct a SWOC or SWOT analysis of the situation, for every mistake or wrong choice you make, it has an equal impact on your life just as when you make a right choice. Be careful with what you wish for as long as your imagination is not limited.