Home.

I once cradled a phone to my ear on Christmas Eve, screen cracked and memory filled with images and videos of teenage debauchery I felt made me better then everyone else. Breakup texts and photos of horrible moments captured for posterity I felt made me more understood than anyone else ever had felt. I proudly denounced my family over the speaker to their heart aching silence. I screamed that they were not my home- that I had found it within a someone or other's decrepit little shell of a place a teenager had been able to drink, smoke, and engage in anything they wanted to. It felt like a party, not like the strict confines of a family. I deserved to wallow and hate, because hate is easier than hurt. My shadows couldn't quite reach me, so small and obscure beneath dingy bulbs and the diet of fast food and faster living.

And I woke up today, Christmas morning eighty years later in my childhood bed with my mother bringing me coffee. Her face is so weathered from the stress I've caused among many others, but she still offered me a warm smile and a kiss to my forehead. I ate breakfast with my brothers, and scuffled with them as a little sister ought to before we played our favourite childhood video games with the same level of skills (I lost, and they would tease me, and I would cry for my mom to make them stop). And then I gathered with my grandma and my aunt's family, and noticed under warm and full bulbs that my shadow had grown up, too. It sat behind me with the old ghosts that haunt each of my loved ones, and for once, I felt at home.

I am sure there have been pivotal moments that have led to this change aside age. But somewhere out there, a tree was planted the day I was born. And that tree stands still, as do I. And that must mean something. But, today, I woke up, and I felt okay. Linear as it may be, or as sudden as comparing the two moments everyone in my family remembers from that lonely and fateful night, I am okay. I am home.