TORN
If you are having a hard time being stressed alone in the room, not going out and socializing in the world just because of two people wrestling in your mind, then you’re on the right leaf.
Having trouble making up decisions in trying to choose between two of your favourite, most wanted, and much loved? Well I have experienced a lot of those bits and pieces. It’s as easy as selecting to eat veggies for some meat but as hard as choosing between a channel and an yves saint laurent.
We all want a pleased and contented life. No one wants to be rejected or to be left alone. People wish for significant persons that they truly chose to be with. And some people put too much on their plate that they forget too much can bring them heartburn. Anyone can be given much love and attention of two persons at the same time. Some can be torn between best of friends, both men or both women. Once you’re in the pit, it’s going to be hard for you to mount and go ahead of the light.
I’m here to advice you easy and lengthened steps to crack the matter between two lovers. If you have to ask someone else who to spend the rest of your life with, you’re not with the right person, or you are not really ready in your life to make that decision. And that is okay. Far too many people fall into marriages for all the wrong reasons that you should be learning to avoid. Once you’ve been in a relationship with someone yet another came and you let him in. Or both of them are showing some concerns or affection in the same time and you are having troubles in your mind. You are in this track.
To every problem, always face it in three steps; answer, move on and open your heart. In this case, star says;
First, Deal with hurt. Someone is going to get hurt and you are just going to deal with that. It is always hard to choose between two people when feelings go so deep with both of them. The worth here would be to gain some clarity, a very valuable quality that makes making decisions an intelligent process, rather than based in touching tangle. Unless you happen to like the drama of having two persons desiring to be your partner and being torn between them.
Second, make your selection. I do believe that you can love two people at the same time. This is because you never love two people in the same way. You can have one type of love for one person and another type for someone else. And both can be equally as strong. But can never be same love in same way.
Third, let go of the other. It is a very difficult problem to solve and yet a very common one. There are a lot of people who go though the same thing. However, to keep the hurt as brief as possible, you need to make up your mind and make your selection now. The longer you wait, the more someone will be hurt.
a mistake will always be a lesson. never regret. people do things worth experiencing.