One thing needs to be clear on the intenet. You DO NOT choose to be gay you DO NOT choose to be trans. just like you DO NOT choose to be straight and you DO NOT choose to be a girl at birth and you DO NOT choose to be a guy at birth. its just the way things are.

I was just arguing with someone about this and I just walked out because I was literally prepared to get in a fight him.

You DO NOT wake up one day and are like hey im going to go fu*k this girl because i want to be gay. You DO NOT choose to be gay. you do not wake up one day and think "hey im going to spend tens of thousands of dollars to have a doctor put a d*ck on me because I want to." Thats NOT how it works. The ammount of sheer idiots in this world is incredible. You DONT decide your gender or sexuality.