Friends are “Useless”

Friends,

Have you ever consider a friend as useless?

Probably not.

We all think that friends are so important that we can’t live without them.

But if you look at the word “useless” in a different way,

things might change a little.

Based on the word “useless”,

we all think about things that doesn’t have any use or benefit to you,

but what if you change your mind a little and look at it this way,

as the fact that you are the one that control and use them, instead of the other way around on what it benefit for you?

I know it may sound a little confusing to you, but long story short,

You cannot use a friend.

Friends are consider as “useless”.

Here’s a question.

Why?

But let me answer your other questions first.

What is true friendship?

A friendship that bound between you and the others?

A friendship that contains trust and understanding?

A friendship that has loyalty and honesty?

A friendship that shares love?

The answer is,

yes.

It’s all of the above.

But most importantly, a true friendship does not contain the word use, and that’s what make it special.

You can never use a friend, friendship are all about how to love and trust someone that connect to you. If you really care for someone, you wouldn’t want to take anything from him or her, or use them as a shield so that can benefit yourself.

A real friendship is not about to take or to use, but it’s about to give and share.

If you truly love or trust someone, you won’t let them suffer,

you won’t let them take the bullet for you because that’s what your heart is telling you.

To love someone.

So that they won’t suffer because of you.

To sacrifice yourself so that they can be better.

A true friend is “useless”, don’t use them if you love them.

Life is short.

So please cherish the friends around you,

as they help you and guide you through life,

be thankful to them,

cause you never know what’s going to happen in the future.

And that’s what a true friendship is about...