To fall in love

At 14... Boys don't have cooties. But they are smelly and will lie to get a kiss

At 16... Boys lie to do a lot of other things too

At 18... Boys are still boys when they are 18 and can make you act crazy

At 21... That I wasn't in love with him, just his family

At 25... I've spent the last 10 years making bad decisions and I don't know what it means to be in love

At 30... I didn't "fall in love" all those other times. I fell in love when I held my son for the first time. I fall gradually more in love with my husband as an amazing father and best friend. And I fall in love every time I hear my daughters sweet voice sing to me.