Relax, take a vibration!
I'm unashamed to admit I didn't really understand "Positivity" in the social and emotional context of the polarity. I didn't even know it was a polarity like the North and South ends of a magnet at the time.. but it is, as I have learned it.
Took some seeking on my part. An unquenched desire to know was born into a #QuestForConsciousness --which is to say, I went searching for understanding in why I had violent inclinations, fantasies, desires. I wanted to know why the "Darkness" seemed so much easier to me than the "Light" and all things happy (I let others tell me how I should think and feel about things.) What the bloody hell did anyone have to be happy about, in a world such as ours, a world I only ever heard complaints about?
Today, my brain doesn't even hesitate to answer that question, "Everything."
Yes, I do mean everything, and I also recognize it is my choice to appreciate every bit of contrast I experience, observe, and even overhear through gossip I could really care less about the passing of.
I learned to take Nikola Tesla's words to heart, about thinking of the universe and everything in it as vibrations, energies, and frequencies.
Angry people have angry vibrations and are thus on totally different frequencies (wavelengths) than people who are Happy and living in happy vibrations. I couldn't help but laugh at how I remembered people telling me, or others around me, "Forget about it, we're on different wavelengths!"
It always sounded insulting to me at the time, but post-Vibrational-thinking, it makes total sense and is absolutely accurate. Angry people can't really make sense of Happy people because their frequencies are so far apart. The wavelengths don't match even remotely. They aren't vibrating for each other ... which is why violence begets violence, and happiness begets happiness... and why someone not consciously deciding to choose different thoughts/emotions, they can and will get sucked right into the same emotional vibrations as the people they are around.
I learned that Consciousness/Thought is the key to everything; most importantly, the key to how we feel at any given moment, over any given topic. It only made half-sense to me until I also learned the real difference between "Conditional" and "Unconditional" as they relate to things like love and happiness.
Conditional Love requires specific conditions, behaviors, or criteria to be met for the feeling of love to be felt.
Unconditional Love requires nothing, it is ever existing as a feeling tied directly to our infinate capacity to love.
Just incase you're not yet with me on where this is going...
Conditional Positivity/Happiness requires specific conditions, behaviors (of ourselves or others,) and or criteria to be met for the feeling of Positivity/Happiness to be felt.
Unconditional Positivity/Happiness is ever existing and tied directly to our infinate capcity to be Positive/Happy.
So, I challenge you, every you who may read this, to practice some "Unconditionals" in your life. Learn/Teach yourself how to love the opportunities to learn about yourself (what you want more of in your life) and keep your attentions there. If you can be unconditionally appreciative of the opportunity you have to evolve/live/grow/be then you'll know the most genuine and intrinstic Positivity and Happiness.
It's 100% up to you, so, what Vibration do you want?
<3 another_proser