It really is telling how unhealthy the world is by their association of the qualities it mocks about this house. It makes me want to cry knowing that people are so hurt. They're lost touch with themselves and are afraid of being seen as vulnerable. Some don't know how to set boundaries properly or how to communicate properly.
I think its because of how often the kind person is seen dying or being the spare one in media. People are afraid of being hurt and in doing so hurt themselves the most.