Blessing Someone Who Gave Me Reason to Curse them

There's a man in my life who did some things that I should call unforgivable. Yet according to everyone I know I am supposed to bless him. But for the way this happened it's very difficult to do that without blessing something that will most likely used to do evil to me over again.

Finally I said God what can I bless that he can't possibly use that way against me?

So I blessed him, first his skills with the videos he make for the church. Perhaps I shouldn't have, I'm being to kind to him for what he's done.

Then I blessed his health because sickness clearly won't stop him doing this evil, so why not...I'm obligated by God to bless him.

Then the other person involved who prompted his evil...Now she's the easiest of all. In Jesus name I pray that God bless her with a lovely trip far away from everything and everyone she knows (including him) one she will enjoy so much she will never come back.

I refuse to bless his evil, or what I know will be used for evil against me, but never the less in Jesus name I bless those two evil doers as written here.