What do you do when you don't know who you are?

What do you do when you don't know what to do?

I can't forgive myself but I need to.

These bones need to heal, it's time I gave myself that.

But in the wound is the memories. And I can't leave those yet.

If I let myself heal do I forget?

If this wound becomes a scar do I just leave?

What do I feel if there's no more pain?