Freedom
I currently drive a 2015 Jeep Wrangler. That may seem kind of boring, but it is a meaningful vehicle to me. For many years, I drove a huge SUV out of necessity. I had to have the ability to tote around 5 kids along with all their stuff: sports gear, musical instruments, camping equipment, friends… you name it.
That vehicle, even for all the time I spent in it, was not “me”. It was an extension of my role as “busy mom”; the working mom that was constantly on the go and (somehow) getting it all done. Let me tell you a secret: It was exhausting.
The time came when only one kid remained at home. He was a senior and driving himself. On a whim, I decided to trade in my SUV for something I'd always wanted: a Jeep, in my favorite color (red). It was also the very first vehicle I had ever bought completely on my own, in my name only. I was surprised to find how much I liked that sense of accomplishment. It felt like a big deal.
After meeting other “Jeepers” (Jeep owners), I learned there are almost endless modifications that can be done to a Jeep. However, I’m quite content with how it is currently equipped. In fact, I now feel that what I drive is an extension of myself. Changing the appearance seems silly.
Yes, I realize it’s not fast or flashy. There are better looking cars out there for sure. It definitely is not the smoothest ride and the fuel efficiency is horrendous, but the trade-off? It is so capable. Of all the things I would not mind being identified as, I can appreciate that adjective: capable. I like the fact I can go places others cannot, if I so choose or have need.
I feel free and happy when I drive it. I love all it has come to represent in this stage of my life and I don’t plan to drive anything else in the foreseeable future.