Poor Mental Issues

What makes or breaks relationships? (Emotional Maturity) It’s age difference. For example, your partner is 35 and you’re 38 years old. Within your relationship, you experience conflict which is usually enhanced by one or both partners not having the best communication skills. Most adults have emotional, mental, and sometimes even physical issues that stem from childhood trauma. Combine this with a lack of knowledge on how to communicate this pain and you’re in for a roller coaster ride of emotions and drama. When a person experiences trauma like mental, emotional, or physical abuse as a child something within them shuts down. As a form of self-preservation, the child will stop evolving on an emotional level past a certain young age. Within romantic relationships, this pain is triggered but most times you don’t have the knowledge or the tools to address it. You think you’re dealing with an adult, but your partner’s emotional age may be just 6 years old. You think your conflict is between a 35 and a 38-year-old, where in reality, you are actually confronted with a 6 year old. How does an adult solve a conflict with a child? This is the age difference that causes the issues and the only thing that can help solve the problem is to create a safe space in which you allow your partner to evolve. But that depends on your own emotional age. If you didn’t evolve past the age of 8 yourself, then your relationship develops a power struggle within immature children who are both crying for love but aren’t able to reflect, evaluate, and communicate like adults. And thus, more childlike behaviors are used for emotional and mental manipulation. A child cries until they get what they want. When children are in pain, they’re unable to see anything other than themselves. That is OK for children, but It gets challenging and even more painful when adults are still playing out this childhood trauma. Childhood trauma is the number one reason for people not to evolve past their childhood age. The hurt or neglected emotion will continue to manifest itself in your adult relationships until it is fully acknowledged, understood, and allowed to surface. The trauma you experienced as a child is a pain that you carry as an adult. It will manipulate every single human relationship until it is fully healed, but as long as you are a 6 year old child in pain crying for love from the depth of your lungs, all this will just be like a fairytale. Trauma caused to people by their mother or father primarily manifests in abandonment issues. Trust, faithfulness, and compassion are just a few of the most prevalent problems that will occur in their relationships.

What makes or breaks relationships? (Emotional Maturity) It’s age difference. For example, your partner is 35 and you’re 38 years old. Within your relationship, you experience conflict which is usually enhanced by one or both partners not having the best communication skills. Most adults have emotional, mental, and sometimes even physical issues that stem from childhood trauma. Combine this with a lack of knowledge on how to communicate this pain and you’re in for a roller coaster ride of emotions and drama. When a person experiences trauma like mental, emotional, or physical abuse as a child something within them shuts down. As a form of self-preservation, the child will stop evolving on an emotional level past a certain young age. Within romantic relationships, this pain is triggered but most times you don’t have the knowledge or the tools to address it. You think you’re dealing with an adult, but your partner’s emotional age may be just 6 years old. You think your conflict is between a 35 and a 38-year-old, where in reality, you are actually confronted with a 6 year old. How does an adult solve a conflict with a child? This is the age difference that causes the issues and the only thing that can help solve the problem is to create a safe space in which you allow your partner to evolve. But that depends on your own emotional age. If you didn’t evolve past the age of 8 yourself, then your relationship develops a power struggle within immature children who are both crying for love but aren’t able to reflect, evaluate, and communicate like adults. And thus, more childlike behaviors are used for emotional and mental manipulation. A child cries until they get what they want. When children are in pain, they’re unable to see anything other than themselves. That is OK for children, but It gets challenging and even more painful when adults are still playing out this childhood trauma. Childhood trauma is the number one reason for people not to evolve past their childhood age. The hurt or neglected emotion will continue to manifest itself in your adult relationships until it is fully acknowledged, understood, and allowed to surface. The trauma you experienced as a child is a pain that you carry as an adult. It will manipulate every single human relationship until it is fully healed, but as long as you are a 6 year old child in pain crying for love from the depth of your lungs, all this will just be like a fairytale. Trauma caused to people by their mother or father primarily manifests in abandonment issues. Trust, faithfulness, and compassion are just a few of the most prevalent problems that will occur in their relationships.