A dragonfly can remain in it’s nymph stage for up to four years before fully transforming into the beautiful winged creatures we admire. They flit around in the water like little faeries, growing and becoming day by day. Perhaps some of them watch with longing as their companions take flight while they are stuck wondering when they will soar among the clouds. They may even begin to believe that their time will never come. That they are destined to remain a nymph and nothing more. Some might not even believe in the final stage, thinking swimming in the cool waters is all they were ever meant to do.

We humans are similarly complex beings in that some of us will take the full length of time to grow spiritually while others may require much less. Don’t try to force growth, your wings need to mature in their own time, life is funny like that. Follow your path with confidence that your time to fly among the stars will come. Always remember that the stage of transformation can be very painful. You must give yourself the love and patience necessary to survive it.

Rejoice in your journey.

Each special detail etched onto the wings of your soul belongs to you and you alone...

the perfect legs

the perfect lips

the perfect hips

hairless and done up

low cut with makeup

when does

my love

for myself

become more

than just

body parts

To love oneself takes work

to love oneself takes time

to love oneself takes understanding

these three tasks can challenge you to the core

if you can conquer them all

the self love you possess give you strength

this strength will ensure every challenge in life you are given

will be met with a unmovable force.

They say no other love can come untill you have mastered this one.

I dissagree, I tend to love other people way more then I love me.

I know myself to well, I know all my secrets, I know all my flaws, and I know the truth behind each single action I have ever made.

Other peoples truths seem to be easier to swallow,

Other peoples truths seem to be easier to forgive,

Other peoples truths seem to be eaiser to fall in love with.

So I fall in love with other people,

to persuade them to fall in love with me,

so

I don’t have to.

Little victories are good.

They don't have to be huge.

They don't have to grand.

They are little kindnesses for yourself.

So, treat yourself to a little victory.

Even if it's just a cup of coffee, tea, or whatever your victory drink.

Treat yourself.