When I Got Fat
When I was five, a girl told me I had chubby cheeks.
My kindergarten teacher pinched them to make me feel better
but that mortifying moment is when the bullying began.
I didn’t really get fat until I was eight
but only because I was too afraid to venture outside
where kids called me names and threw ice and bugs and boogers.
Then when I got fat, the torture increased.
I was “that” girl—the ugly, angry one.
Challenged to races just because they knew I’d lose.
In third grade, I’d kick people who called me names
and make faces at the kid flicking boogers at me,
but soon, growing tired, I gave up.
I let my fifth grade math teacher make fun of me
and the eighth graders laugh at my size,
at my “crusty, grody” existence.
When I was thirteen, I learned how to regain control.
If I just became skinny, the kids would stop.
Along came the calories, a new kind of bully.
I counted and restricted and obsessed.
I rode seven miles on a bike followed by hours of Wii fit
before becoming a runner and a core enthusiast.
When I was my lowest weight, I could see my ribs through my shirt.
It took doctor appointments and breakdowns and faked recoveries
for things to be normal again.
But now, I feel out of control all over
Sorry?
I sit there, this isn't fair.
All of them have a friend.
I want to find one that's mine.
I can pretend to be fine, and pretend to be kind.
But the anger, the fear, the rage
Builds up
Consumes me.
I lash out.
Fists fly,
But only mine.
They're so scared,
They can't even move.
The kid who took everything
Now threw it all back.
She felt clean
Happy
Pure
For once
But she knew it wouldn't last.
Days later, darkness returns.
It's eyes are spaceless.
It isn't even human anymore.
It stands, stares, and takes everything.
It isn't living anymore, simply existing.
An attempt on her life.
A sharp steel dipping into skin
Repeats again and again.
This is her way of feeling again.
Too numb, can't breathe.
Her temporary reprieve is just that.
The darkness will return.
I finally have escaped.
Graduated from the place.
Found a new home with new kids.
It's better now.
The darkness is still there,
Not gone completely,
But it is manageable.
It's hard some days for me,
But I have a supportive community.
I hope it will stay like this.
Forever.