I hate it.

I hate knowing that one day I may go out in public, and I may hold hands with a girl, and that will be dangerous. That will be taking a chance. That could get me killed.

When we're children, a message that's drilled into our brains is "be yourself."

"No matter what anyone says, you should be youself!"

"You're perfect the way you are!"

That, and "Don't hate others for being different!"

It obviously doesn't work, because they aren't talking about love. They're talking about dressing differently, or having a different hobby, or liking a different type of music. They aren't considering those little boys who look at the TV and see their favorite characters flirting with girls. They aren't considering the little girls who play house where there's always a mommy and a daddy, just like in the story books. They aren't considering the kids who grow up thinking they're wrong, scared because the way they feel is never shown in anything they ever have seen. It's different. It's wrong. They're different. They're wrong. Their feelings are wrong because their feelings are never shown.

I denied it for such a long time. I'm straight, of course I am. I don't hate gay people, but I'm straight. It hurt when I first talked to a girl at hotel breakfast and thought She's cute. I'd never see her again, we were both travelling away from home, so I dared have that thought and I dared hate myself for it. That's wrong. 

It hit me like a bus when I first looked it up on the internet. That's me, I thought, there's other people like me. I'm not wrong. 

It hit me like a bus when my mother asked why I had been looking these things up, and her voice was like ice, her expression was like knives.

When we're growing up, it's drilled into our brain that boys and girls love each other. They can't be friends, it will always end in a romantic relationship. They can't love others their gender, it is wrong. It's a sin. It's bad, and they're bad for feeling that way. They're bad for being that way, for being themselves.

"It's not like that anymore," people tell me. "Everyone's fine with gay people."

Tell that to 12 year old me, who was terrified of her feelings. Tell that to the kids that internalize it like I did because they're told it's wrong. Tell that to those who hate themselves for it and are bullied for being different. Tell that to those who are killed for loving other people.

They can act as if it's not a problem, but as soon as you look away they're talking about how all gay people are predatory, or how we're forcing our sexuality on them, or how good a TV show that condemns us is. They call themselves our allies then make passive aggressive comments against us. They say they're okay with gay people then get offended when we so much as love. They act as if we weren't killed for years, and as if our opinions are silly or unwarranted. Then they expect us to take it and not speak, because as long as we're silent we can act just like them. As long as we aren't different we can hang out with them. As long as we don't get angry at their hurtful jokes but instead laugh at something that makes fun of us we can exist.

I know that one day I could be killed for that. If I step out of line even once, I could be punished. So I'll hide a part of me until I'm sure I don't need to. I'll hide it from my parents and my peers. When I'm older, I'll hide it from coworkers and friends. It's a survival tactic.

And I hate it.

Good morning, Prosers,

We hope that you are all enjoying these summer months.

It’s week thirty-five of the Prose Challenge of the Week! Last week saw you all incorporating this sentence within your pieces, “we all bleed the same.” We had a plethora of awesome entries to read, so thank you everyone.

Before we find out which one of you takes the $100 prize, let’s take a look at this week’s prompt:

Prose Challenge of the Week #35: Write a piece of micropoetry that draws inspiration from the following word: “Equality.” The winner will be chosen based on a number of criteria, this includes: fire, form, and creative edge. Number of reads, bookmarks, and shares will also be taken into consideration. The winner will receive $100. When sharing to Twitter, please use the hashtag #ProseChallenge

Set the world to rights, write now.

Back to the winner of week thirty-four. We have read all of your entries and thoroughly enjoyed every single one. There can only be one winner, however, and after much deliberation that winner is, @saulmaciasz with their piece “Composite.” Congratulations to you, we will be in touch shortly to arrange transfer of your winnings!

That’s all for this week, here’s to a week filled with all things Prose!

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