Gender vs Sex

Okay. So, I just got in an argument with someone about this and I'm gonna rant.

A guy is a guy weather or not he has a d*ck. A guy's d*ck does not make him a guy, It's that he says he's a guy and he believes he is one. Some guys have d*cks and some guys have va*inas. What's between your legs doesnt make you who you are. You figure that out through life. Between your legs is your sex, In your mind is gender. Just because you dont have a d*ck between your legs doesnt mean your less of or not a guy. Same for women. It doesnt matter what she has between her legs. Va*ina or not. She is still a women and she is still valid.

Gender is nothing but a social construct. It's these steriotypes society implaints in us since the moment we are born. You are either a boy or a girl. Blue is for boys, Pink is for girls. Girls do this, Guys do that. Your gender is based on what you were born with between your legs. Guys are masculine, Girls are feminine. Guys play sports, Girls stay pretty. NONE of this is true. A girl can be masculine and a guy can be feminine. A girl can do or be whatever she wants to no matter what society says because she is her own person and society does not control her. A guy can be dor do what ever he wants because he is a singular individual.

Some people even choose to not to associate with any of these social constructs and can identify as non-binary or agender. They are still valid. It still doesnt matter whats between their legs. Some people associate with both and can identify as bigender. Still valid. Still doesnt matter whats in their pants. Some people are born intersex. First, they were born that way. They are still valid. They can still be who they want despite what society says.

NONE of these people are weird. They are valid and beautiful.

NEVER ask someone what is in their pants if you cant tell weather they are a girl or a boy because, First, they may be both or they may be neither. Second, it's extremely rude. Would you go ask any other person what's in their pants? No.

Gender is a social construct. This is not set in stone from the moment you are born. This is determined by what you feel you are.

Sex is what's in your pants. This is placed when you are born and will stay the same unless you get sex reassignment surgery.