The Way I see It

Listen up women...It is time we stop criticizing each other, stop looking for faults and being a nuisance in another woman's life. We should be encouraging, help each other out. So the younger sister in church may not be as classy as you, or the neighbours daughter dresses and looks a bit vulgar, don't look at them and judge, there are so many reasons why women dress the way we do and most times we judge by what we see.

There is so much more going on under the skin of a woman, in her head, behind her smiles. We all have our problems and judging, and turning up your nose, and sometimes the hard long stares makes it so much more difficult in making another woman feel good about herself.

Have you ever gotten dressed up, makeup well done, hair is gorgeous, before you leave the house you are on top of the world because you're looking good and you know it, then you hit the streets, or enter the event and the stares you get from other women have you wondering if you have mess on you or something, you quickly start glancing down at yourself, wondering if something changed from the time you looked into the mirror to that grand entrance?

Well that is what some women do, but it needs to stop, pay a complement to a sister, so her dress his really short and her butt is outside, compliment her hair, or makeup and say " girl, don't bend down everyone can see your kingdom, but you look lovely". In other words help her out don't kill her confidence, we all know how we do it. I too sometimes slip up and judge, but when we do it? It’s when we don't feel good about ourselves or when we are having a bad day. It's hard to pay a compliment when you don't feel good inside.

Try this...Pay a compliment to a woman today and at least to one every day, let’s try to build and create love for each other.

Let’s celebrate all women, every kind of woman, because sometimes the situation you're handed causes you to be... even if it's for 1 day... a woman you may not be too proud of, but there might be in your time of need another woman to pick you up.

Be your own kind of beautiful and celebrate being a woman!