One must realize "a part of learning is dying". When undergoing internal struggle, look inward, filter out what feels unnatural, what you are forcing yourself to do as a result of external pressure, because that is not your purpose. It may be someones purpose but it is not yours. Accepting this is not easy, you are stripping conceived aspects of your identity.

However, then and only then, are you able to listen to your spirit uncontaminated by self-deception and preconditions. Listen to your spirit and you will find purpose, fulfillment, and your true self.

Shrimp fried rice, how hard can it be?

Step 1: Find an experienced Shrimp chef. (The best are found at the Bikini Bottom)

Step 2: Greet the Shrimp in his proper dialect. (There are many tongues of the shrimp language).

Step 3: Bow and request the Shrimp to fry the rice you have brought before him.

Step 4: If deemed worthy, the shrimp will fry your rice, and your guests will be pleased.