The right to life many people whether ladies or men do not agree with this. Only because they believe in it when it suits their purpose or condition. Example: Abortion is killing of a baby I encourage you to do not believe me do your own research. However, I heard reasons of why people got "rid" of the child because of school, inconvenience to life, work, things that are always going to be there etc..... Personally I think they should only abort it if the mother life is in danger. I do not agree with most of the reasons but hey they can do whatever EVERYONE has opinions.
Domestic Abuse
They say there is no excuse to physically strike a human being and I agree. I do believe, as with anything else though, there are shades of grey. Of course there are true monsters but I believe there are others that can be redeemed.
For example, somebody that I knew in college was very verbally abusive to her boyfriend. She was one to often start and pick fights with him. She would goad him constantly about his weaknesses and shortcomings. There is one incident that I have in mind where he made himself vulnerable to her and she totally shamed and insulted him about it. This led to him hitting her across the face open handed. The man should have taken a deep breath and walked away. I believe his actions were wrong in the end but he was young and it was in the heat of the moment. I don't know if I would classify him as being an abuser. I do think he made a mistake but with age and perhaps anger management counselling from what I know about him, he doesn't have to be a repeat offender.
His actions with his former girlfriend were wrong, but knowing her and the situation, I don't think it should define him for the rest of his life if he's willing to work on handing toxic situations differently. In this instance, I do not know if it would be fair to call him an abuser. He unfortunately got involved with someone who is definitely verbally abusive herself, got caught up in the argument, and made the wrong choice.