To be, or not to be, that is the question; but will I like the frigging answer.

For the aficiando's out there (and those who aren't), the first part is the opening line from Shakespeare's Hamlet, Act III, from the nunnery, Scene I.

If you know you're gay, yet you fear making it known,

I'll ask you, is It important for you to have it known?

You could keep it secret, only you know the truth,

But I guess it burns.

It burns, and burning.

It stifles your breath,

It binds you in chains,

Frustrates your decision,

In calculation,

For you may only walk

Along the cracks.

So let me ask you this, my friend:

Do you have a real choice?

Do you want to continue living,

Like some doomed Greek hero?

Never finding home?

And remember, always:

Life is just too short.

One thing needs to be clear on the intenet. You DO NOT choose to be gay you DO NOT choose to be trans. just like you DO NOT choose to be straight and you DO NOT choose to be a girl at birth and you DO NOT choose to be a guy at birth. its just the way things are.

I was just arguing with someone about this and I just walked out because I was literally prepared to get in a fight him.

You DO NOT wake up one day and are like hey im going to go fu*k this girl because i want to be gay. You DO NOT choose to be gay. you do not wake up one day and think "hey im going to spend tens of thousands of dollars to have a doctor put a d*ck on me because I want to." Thats NOT how it works. The ammount of sheer idiots in this world is incredible. You DONT decide your gender or sexuality.

You are the only one that knows when you are ready to come out. I will say that know matter what other people think you know who you are. Who ever you are; straight, bi, gay, or lesbian you are human. If other people don't accept who you are then you don't need them in your life. You are human no matter who you are or who you like. If you ever need to talk I am here just pm me.:)